Something your partner did cause you pain and frustration. You want to tell them what hurt you, but you seem to always end up in a fight when you bring it up. Sound familiar? In this episode, I get into the specifics of how you can deliver feedback about something your partner did and what you'd like them to do differently in a way that actually gets results. Every single couple has to have these conversations, but you can develop skills that can reduce the negative fallout and even bring you closer.
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“That's a big part of what relationships can do for us. They give us a safe place to work out old feelings”
-Michele Lisenbury Christensen
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I hope that today's podcast can help you have conversations in a more productive way and feel like your pains are actually doorways to more closeness, deeper intimacy and more joy together. And may the light within you illuminate the world around you.
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Related episodes of Sex.Love.Power:
Poorly Timed Conversations episode
The 5 Winning Relationship Strategies episode
The 5 Losing Relationship Strategies episode
Terry Real’s books:
The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work
The Settling Down Together Checklist
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