Our pleasure can be the fuel for abundant, sustainable work, service, and play throughout our long lives.

Our sexuality can be a wholesome pillar of our daily experience.  

Our marriages can be fueled by desire rather than duty.

Monogamy can be the hottest place on earth.

It’s a confusing time to be a heterosexual, monogamous couple.  The love and passion you desire may be more an inner urge than something you really see people around you living.  But there are a growing community of devoted couples creating monogamy as a conscious spiritual crucible.  There are couples using their marriages to fuel their leadership and service and activism.  Welcome to Sex. Love. Power. where we convene the conversations that unlock new possibilities in your life and relationship.  I’m your host Michele Lisenbury Christensen. Over the past 26 years, I’ve helped thousands of couples create the love and sex they desire.  Kurt and I, in 23 years of marriage and adventures together before that, have suffered, avoided, dared, and triumphed in countless ways.  Now, I’m here to help you get more peace, more connection, and more passion in your days and nights, so you’ve got the energy and attention left over to be the change you wish to see in the wider world. Everything you want in love and sex and beyond starts with YOU, and it starts right now. Let’s tend your flame.